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The Journey to Self-Awareness and Emotional Intelligence
Self-awareness is the doorway to emotional intelligence. Without it, emotional intelligence (EQ) becomes mere technique—a set of behaviors you try to manage. With self-awareness, EQ transforms into something profound and life-changing. Dallas Willard often spoke about the renovation of the heart. He emphasized that it’s not just about managing behavior; it’s about inner change. Jung would argue that until we make the unconscious conscious, it will direct our lives, and we wil
Paul Abrahams
Feb 124 min read


Bold Love by Dan Allendar - Book Review
Bold Love: When Love Refuses to Be “Nice” and Chooses to Be True Dan Allender and Tremper Longman’s Bold Love is not a book for people who want love to feel comfortable. It is a book for people who want love to be real. From the opening pages, the authors dismantle one of the most damaging assumptions in modern relationships: that love is synonymous with being nice. In their telling, niceness is often the enemy of love. Niceness is what embodies many Christians live by when
Paul Abrahams
Jan 194 min read


Marriage on Mission: Why Your Spouse Isn’t Meant to Make You Happy
Our world sells us a cheap version of love. Movies, songs, and social media tell us that love is about passion, chemistry, and someone...
Paul Abrahams
Jun 9, 20255 min read


Breaking the Agreements: Fighting for Your Marriage in the Midst of War
Inspired by Love and War by John and Stasi Eldredge Marriage is a battlefield—not because it’s doomed, but because it’s sacred. In Love...
Paul Abrahams
Apr 12, 20253 min read


Keep Fun in Your Marriage
A book we often recommend and sell on our Resources List is entitled "Fun Loving You" by Ted Cunningham. The book is a great reminder of...
Paul Abrahams
Apr 8, 20254 min read


Redemption in Marriage - The Book "Intimate Allies" by Dan Allender and Tremper Longman
Marriage is a sacred covenant designed to reflect God’s love, grace, and intimacy. Yet, it is often marked by struggles, wounds, and...
Paul Abrahams
Mar 26, 20253 min read


What Does it Mean to be For Each Other?
We've always said in our family: "We are for each other." We are for our kids, as much as we love them all differently with their...
Paul Abrahams
Mar 3, 20253 min read


A Field Guide to Conflict: Highlights from a Watermark Church Resource
Conflict is an inevitable part of life—whether in our relationships, workplaces, or even within our church communities. If you don't...
Paul Abrahams
Feb 19, 20253 min read


Give Yourself Away: Communication in Marriage
Communication is the lifeblood of every marriage, yet it’s the very thing that often feels out of reach for so many couples. Most of the...
Paul Abrahams
Jan 22, 20253 min read


Good and Angry
Anger is a powerful emotion, often misunderstood and mishandled. In Chapter 4 of Good and Angry , David Powlison asks the crucial...
Paul Abrahams
Jan 13, 20253 min read


The Pilgrimage
In February 2009, on our back patio, my wife and I were praying and reflecting on my life. As I contemplated major changes, we both felt...
Paul Abrahams
Sep 16, 20245 min read


Adding Fun to Your Marriage
Although marriage is a gift, we all know how difficult it is with daily responsibilities, stress, and routines, children (teenagers,...
Paul Abrahams
Aug 7, 20243 min read


5 Daily Marriage Essentials
In marriage, we know its essential to carve out sacred spaces for connection and intimacy. The following list is what we have found are...
Paul Abrahams
Nov 14, 20232 min read
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