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Acceptance Is Not Passive
The ancient wisdom of the Serenity Prayer offers a profoundly simple framework for healing: God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,the courage to change the things I can,and the wisdom to know the difference. At first glance, it reads like a short prayer for peace. But when lived deeply, it becomes a way of ordering the soul. It calls us to humility, discernment, and surrender—three movements that mirror Jesus’ teaching in Gospel of Matthew when he sa
Paul Abrahams
May 203 min read


Why Christian Counseling?
Most people come to counseling because something has broken open in their lives. A marriage is strained. Anxiety is overwhelming. A hidden addiction comes to the surfact and wreaks havoc in your life. Sometimes it is not even a crisis—just a quiet realization that something inside is not right. Life is working on the outside, but the the mental gymnastics are active and peace seems scarce.
Paul Abrahams
Apr 13 min read


Bold Love by Dan Allendar - Book Review
Bold Love: When Love Refuses to Be “Nice” and Chooses to Be True Dan Allender and Tremper Longman’s Bold Love is not a book for people who want love to feel comfortable. It is a book for people who want love to be real. From the opening pages, the authors dismantle one of the most damaging assumptions in modern relationships: that love is synonymous with being nice. In their telling, niceness is often the enemy of love. Niceness is what embodies many Christians live by when
Paul Abrahams
Jan 194 min read


The Transformative Power of Forgiveness: A Path to Healing
Understanding Unforgiveness This is our fourth article in the series on mental health. Today, we will explore a significant opportunity for growth and a barrier to closeness with God— forgiveness . Let’s begin by examining what unforgiveness looks like. Few things weigh on the mind and spirit like holding onto past grievances. Bitterness and resentment can occupy our thoughts, disrupt our sleep, and poison our relationships. Psychologists note that harboring unforgiveness inc
Paul Abrahams
Sep 22, 20253 min read


Taking an Inventory of Our Lives
Recovery groups use inventory as a crucial part of the healing journey — a process of looking honestly at our past and present to...
Paul Abrahams
Jul 31, 20252 min read


Marriage on Mission: Why Your Spouse Isn’t Meant to Make You Happy
Our world sells us a cheap version of love. Movies, songs, and social media tell us that love is about passion, chemistry, and someone...
Paul Abrahams
Jun 9, 20255 min read


Two Ways to Live: There's No Neutral Ground
We wanted to write an article today that will be helpful in your journey towards healing. We often hear of people letting in the world's...
Paul Abrahams
May 19, 20253 min read


Breaking the Agreements: Fighting for Your Marriage in the Midst of War
Inspired by Love and War by John and Stasi Eldredge Marriage is a battlefield—not because it’s doomed, but because it’s sacred. In Love...
Paul Abrahams
Apr 12, 20253 min read


Redemption in Marriage - The Book "Intimate Allies" by Dan Allender and Tremper Longman
Marriage is a sacred covenant designed to reflect God’s love, grace, and intimacy. Yet, it is often marked by struggles, wounds, and...
Paul Abrahams
Mar 26, 20253 min read


A Field Guide to Conflict: Highlights from a Watermark Church Resource
Conflict is an inevitable part of life—whether in our relationships, workplaces, or even within our church communities. If you don't...
Paul Abrahams
Feb 19, 20253 min read


Good and Angry
Anger is a powerful emotion, often misunderstood and mishandled. In Chapter 4 of Good and Angry , David Powlison asks the crucial...
Paul Abrahams
Jan 13, 20253 min read


The Wild at Heart Basic Intensive
On January 16-18 we are hosting a men’s intensive called Wild at Heart Basic at our office. This intensive begins Thursday (January 16)...
Paul Abrahams
Dec 3, 20241 min read


The Pilgrimage
In February 2009, on our back patio, my wife and I were praying and reflecting on my life. As I contemplated major changes, we both felt...
Paul Abrahams
Sep 16, 20245 min read


Being a Woman After God's Heart
As we shift our focus from Father's Day, we pause today to reflect on God's design for women. In a world filled with shifting values...
Paul Abrahams
Jun 18, 20242 min read


Love and War - A Must Read on Marriage
Marriage is an ultimate act of love, a union where two souls become one. But as we know from walking with many, marriage is also a...
Paul Abrahams
Jun 6, 20243 min read


What To Do When Conflict Happens (Don't be a “WENI!”)
From a sermon I loved at Watermark Community Church in Dallas on conflict, I wanted to share the message "Don't Be a 'WENI': Christlike...
Paul Abrahams
May 29, 20242 min read


10 Things to Start (or Restart) a Lasting Marriage
Starting (or restarting) your marriage on the right foot is crucial for laying a solid foundation that will support your relationship...
Paul Abrahams
Apr 16, 20243 min read


What is Christian Community?
New Testament community is often difficult for us to fathom at times, we can learn from a Christ-centered mission home for people with...
Paul Abrahams
Aug 10, 20232 min read


Couples Retreat 2023
Our marriage getaway rhythm started years ago, in the second year of our marriage somewhere around 2001, before kids, and the hustle and...
Paul Abrahams
Mar 20, 20232 min read


Meet Paul Abrahams, Mens Pastoral Counselor
Our newest Counselor, Paul, is the husband of Woodforest Counseling Founder Kristin Abrahams for 24 years. He is available Wednesday and...
Paul Abrahams
Mar 16, 20231 min read
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