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Bold Love by Dan Allendar - Book Review
Bold Love: When Love Refuses to Be “Nice” and Chooses to Be True Dan Allender and Tremper Longman’s Bold Love is not a book for people who want love to feel comfortable. It is a book for people who want love to be real. From the opening pages, the authors dismantle one of the most damaging assumptions in modern relationships: that love is synonymous with being nice. In their telling, niceness is often the enemy of love. Niceness is what embodies many Christians live by when
Paul Abrahams
Jan 194 min read


The Transformative Power of Forgiveness: A Path to Healing
Understanding Unforgiveness This is our fourth article in the series on mental health. Today, we will explore a significant opportunity for growth and a barrier to closeness with God— forgiveness . Let’s begin by examining what unforgiveness looks like. Few things weigh on the mind and spirit like holding onto past grievances. Bitterness and resentment can occupy our thoughts, disrupt our sleep, and poison our relationships. Psychologists note that harboring unforgiveness inc
Paul Abrahams
Sep 22, 20253 min read


Breaking the Agreements: Fighting for Your Marriage in the Midst of War
Inspired by Love and War by John and Stasi Eldredge Marriage is a battlefield—not because it’s doomed, but because it’s sacred. In Love...
Paul Abrahams
Apr 12, 20253 min read


Redemption in Marriage - The Book "Intimate Allies" by Dan Allender and Tremper Longman
Marriage is a sacred covenant designed to reflect God’s love, grace, and intimacy. Yet, it is often marked by struggles, wounds, and...
Paul Abrahams
Mar 26, 20253 min read


What Does it Mean to be For Each Other?
We've always said in our family: "We are for each other." We are for our kids, as much as we love them all differently with their...
Paul Abrahams
Mar 3, 20253 min read


A Field Guide to Conflict: Highlights from a Watermark Church Resource
Conflict is an inevitable part of life—whether in our relationships, workplaces, or even within our church communities. If you don't...
Paul Abrahams
Feb 19, 20253 min read


Dealing With Adversity-Brokenness is Never the End of the Story: Lessons from David, Jesus, and Peter
Adversity is inevitable, but the Bible shows us how God works through our struggles to strengthen and refine us. Three of the most...
Paul Abrahams
Feb 10, 20253 min read


Give Yourself Away: Communication in Marriage
Communication is the lifeblood of every marriage, yet it’s the very thing that often feels out of reach for so many couples. Most of the...
Paul Abrahams
Jan 22, 20253 min read


Good and Angry
Anger is a powerful emotion, often misunderstood and mishandled. In Chapter 4 of Good and Angry , David Powlison asks the crucial...
Paul Abrahams
Jan 13, 20253 min read


Love and War - A Must Read on Marriage
Marriage is an ultimate act of love, a union where two souls become one. But as we know from walking with many, marriage is also a...
Paul Abrahams
Jun 6, 20243 min read


What To Do When Conflict Happens (Don't be a “WENI!”)
From a sermon I loved at Watermark Community Church in Dallas on conflict, I wanted to share the message "Don't Be a 'WENI': Christlike...
Paul Abrahams
May 29, 20242 min read


10 Things to Start (or Restart) a Lasting Marriage
Starting (or restarting) your marriage on the right foot is crucial for laying a solid foundation that will support your relationship...
Paul Abrahams
Apr 16, 20243 min read


"Put Down Your Weapons"- Five Things Not to Weaponize in Your Marriage
Marriage is a journey of love and growth towards Jesus. Yet, amungst the joys and trials, couples sometimes find themselves engaging in...
Paul Abrahams
Mar 22, 20242 min read


Codependent? What Does That Word Mean?
In the covenant of marriage, there's a balance between two individuals weaving their lives and maintaining their independence. Let's...
Paul Abrahams
Mar 12, 20242 min read


What is Christian Community?
New Testament community is often difficult for us to fathom at times, we can learn from a Christ-centered mission home for people with...
Paul Abrahams
Aug 10, 20232 min read


Couples Retreat 2023
Our marriage getaway rhythm started years ago, in the second year of our marriage somewhere around 2001, before kids, and the hustle and...
Paul Abrahams
Mar 20, 20232 min read


Meet Paul Abrahams, Mens Pastoral Counselor
Our newest Counselor, Paul, is the husband of Woodforest Counseling Founder Kristin Abrahams for 24 years. He is available Wednesday and...
Paul Abrahams
Mar 16, 20231 min read
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