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We Created a Jesus Calling Web App: Carrying a Daily Word With Us
We have always loved Jesus Calling. Its daily readings have a way of meeting us exactly where we are, reminding us that we are loved, that we are never alone, and that we can trust Jesus with whatever we are carrying. Over the years, particular readings have spoken directly to our circumstances—a difficult decision, a season of uncertainty, a relationship needing grace, or a fear we couldn’t shake. Again and again, the message has felt like a gentle reminder from Jesus: Look
Paul Abrahams
Aug 253 min read


Acceptance Is Not Passive
The ancient wisdom of the Serenity Prayer offers a profoundly simple framework for healing: God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,the courage to change the things I can,and the wisdom to know the difference. At first glance, it reads like a short prayer for peace. But when lived deeply, it becomes a way of ordering the soul. It calls us to humility, discernment, and surrender—three movements that mirror Jesus’ teaching in Gospel of Matthew when he sa
Paul Abrahams
May 203 min read


Why Christian Counseling?
Most people come to counseling because something has broken open in their lives. A marriage is strained. Anxiety is overwhelming. A hidden addiction comes to the surfact and wreaks havoc in your life. Sometimes it is not even a crisis—just a quiet realization that something inside is not right. Life is working on the outside, but the the mental gymnastics are active and peace seems scarce.
Paul Abrahams
Apr 13 min read


The Journey to Self-Awareness and Emotional Intelligence
Self-awareness is the doorway to emotional intelligence. Without it, emotional intelligence (EQ) becomes mere technique—a set of behaviors you try to manage. With self-awareness, EQ transforms into something profound and life-changing. Dallas Willard often spoke about the renovation of the heart. He emphasized that it’s not just about managing behavior; it’s about inner change. Jung would argue that until we make the unconscious conscious, it will direct our lives, and we wil
Paul Abrahams
Feb 124 min read


Bold Love by Dan Allendar - Book Review
Bold Love: When Love Refuses to Be “Nice” and Chooses to Be True Dan Allender and Tremper Longman’s Bold Love is not a book for people who want love to feel comfortable. It is a book for people who want love to be real. From the opening pages, the authors dismantle one of the most damaging assumptions in modern relationships: that love is synonymous with being nice. In their telling, niceness is often the enemy of love. Niceness is what embodies many Christians live by when
Paul Abrahams
Jan 194 min read


The Transformative Power of Daily Prayer: Aligning with God’s Kingdom
Today, I want to revisit the topic of prayer and explore its profound meaning in our daily lives. We often receive questions about how to cultivate a prayer life, so I hope this resource serves you well whenever you need it. What Prayer Is: Aligning Ourselves with God and His Kingdom Prayer is not merely a ritual or a list of requests. At its heart, it is the soul’s alignment with the King and His Kingdom. When we pray to the God of the universe, we engage in a relationship w
Paul Abrahams
Nov 3, 20254 min read


The Transformative Power of Forgiveness: A Path to Healing
Understanding Unforgiveness This is our fourth article in the series on mental health. Today, we will explore a significant opportunity for growth and a barrier to closeness with God— forgiveness . Let’s begin by examining what unforgiveness looks like. Few things weigh on the mind and spirit like holding onto past grievances. Bitterness and resentment can occupy our thoughts, disrupt our sleep, and poison our relationships. Psychologists note that harboring unforgiveness inc
Paul Abrahams
Sep 22, 20253 min read


Part 3 – Rest and Renewal
For this third part of our 5 part series on mental and spiritual health, let’s talk about rest! We live in a culture that celebrates...
Paul Abrahams
Sep 7, 20252 min read


Part 2 – The Role of Emotions in Spiritual Growth
Emotions are some of God’s most misunderstood gifts. For many, feelings seem like dangerous waters—either ignored as untrustworthy or...
Paul Abrahams
Sep 2, 20252 min read


Part 1 on Mental Health - Quieting the Inner Noise
Our world is loud! Not just in the obvious ways—traffic, phones buzzing, TVs always on—but in a deeper, relentless hum of information and...
Paul Abrahams
Aug 31, 20253 min read


Taking an Inventory of Our Lives
Recovery groups use inventory as a crucial part of the healing journey — a process of looking honestly at our past and present to...
Paul Abrahams
Jul 31, 20252 min read


Marriage on Mission: Why Your Spouse Isn’t Meant to Make You Happy
Our world sells us a cheap version of love. Movies, songs, and social media tell us that love is about passion, chemistry, and someone...
Paul Abrahams
Jun 9, 20255 min read


Two Ways to Live: There's No Neutral Ground
We wanted to write an article today that will be helpful in your journey towards healing. We often hear of people letting in the world's...
Paul Abrahams
May 19, 20253 min read


Your Kids’ Stress Levels: Finals Season
This time of year the pressure mounts as teenage and college-age kids finish their semesters. What can we as parents do for them? How can...
Paul Abrahams
Apr 23, 20253 min read


Redemption in Marriage - The Book "Intimate Allies" by Dan Allender and Tremper Longman
Marriage is a sacred covenant designed to reflect God’s love, grace, and intimacy. Yet, it is often marked by struggles, wounds, and...
Paul Abrahams
Mar 26, 20253 min read


On Technology and Our Families
Technology is a gift from God when used wisely. Tools like apps for learning, and FaceTime calls can keep families connected easier. Yet,...
Paul Abrahams
Mar 13, 20252 min read


What Does it Mean to be For Each Other?
We've always said in our family: "We are for each other." We are for our kids, as much as we love them all differently with their...
Paul Abrahams
Mar 3, 20253 min read


A Field Guide to Conflict: Highlights from a Watermark Church Resource
Conflict is an inevitable part of life—whether in our relationships, workplaces, or even within our church communities. If you don't...
Paul Abrahams
Feb 19, 20253 min read


Dealing With Adversity-Brokenness is Never the End of the Story: Lessons from David, Jesus, and Peter
Adversity is inevitable, but the Bible shows us how God works through our struggles to strengthen and refine us. Three of the most...
Paul Abrahams
Feb 10, 20253 min read


Good and Angry
Anger is a powerful emotion, often misunderstood and mishandled. In Chapter 4 of Good and Angry , David Powlison asks the crucial...
Paul Abrahams
Jan 13, 20253 min read
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